Dok, please read this. I'm going to answer Kilika line-by-line :
"The Lord rebuke you. How dare you disrespect William, a very young brother that is seriously reaching out to the brethren for help.
Show us where she disrespected William.
And you go and cause disruption by going off-topic and scolding me in public out of total disregard for William.
Show us what she said that's off-topic.
How dare you! You got a beef with me woman, fine, but don't you dare go around blasting people like that
Wow.... here we go, again... show us where she has blasted anybody.
and take away from anothers time of need.
Show us where she took away from another's time of need.
As I said, and apparently you still don't get, a pm was in order
So.... did she already request that you do not pm her? Then your sending her another pm is out of order.
considering the thread is from a person that is seeking immmediate help, not just a general discussion about what a person thinks about a verse or something.
It had to do with whether or not he needed to confess his sins to us. That is immediate.
God willing, what you should do is apologize profusely to William, and to the brethren for your disruption.
Now you are repeating the same accusations.
Take the low seat and humble yourself before God.
.... and after your show of high puff-uppery, you tell HER to humble HERSELF? Surely, you must be feeling a little silly.
"Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up." James 4:10 (KJB)
That is a very good verse. Now why don't you try it?
Dok, he made the accusations. The onus is on him to show us the proof.... and if he can't, he is the one that needs to apologize for making accusations.... and for behaving himself unseemly... and verbally "roughing up" a woman... even if he COULD prove his accusations, there is no justification for verbally "roughing up" a woman.... what is he going to do next.... Chew tobacco and spit tobacco in her face?
His behavior is not justifiable, but it is forgivable, if he were to repent. He needs to apologize to Vanessa, and though I think it might take a little bit of time, she would forgive him. I can't speak for her but I'm just saying.
